In life, you will always come across situations that make you feel uncomfortable or perhaps put you in a tough spot. But if you have self-respect, there is no reason to break down and throw a fit. Instead, you will act in a way that shows others your values. Let others know you have self-respect when you act in the following ways.
Maybe you made a mistake, or you didn't mean to do something but did it by accident. Take responsibility for your actions, let others' know that you made a mistake. It would be best to let them know that you will do your best to correct whatever error you made. Admitting your mistake will show others that you respect yourself and respect them, as you aren't playing the blame game?instead, you are taking responsibility for your actions.
Who doesn't love instant gratification? After all, waiting for something isn't any fun! However, someone with self-respect knows that good things come to those who wait. So when someone offers you something the minute that isn't good for you, don't be afraid to turn them down so that you can reap the more significant benefits later.
Many people have a problem saying no when someone asks them to do something they aren't comfortable with or don't want to do. When you have self-respect, you know better than to overschedule or overwork yourself, so when someone asks you to do something you don't have time for, you will be able to say no without any difficulty. You know that they won't judge you for it when you tell someone no.
The number one way you can show others that you have self-respect is by following through with the promises you make because you know yourself when you make those promises and know that you will deliver. Therefore, there are no excuses and no reason not to follow through. Not only does this show that you respect yourself and your time, but others will also know that you respect them and their time as well.
Acting with self-respect isn't always easy, and sometimes you will find that it is almost impossible to do so. But as long as you always take responsibility, skip the instant gratification, and learn when to say no, everyone will know you have a high level of self-respect. In addition, if you can follow through with your actions, not only will others see your self-respect, but they will also know you respect them.
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To Your Success,
Clyde
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